# Feminine Penis
Feminine Penis is an ironic 4chan joke phrase used to describe the genitals of trans women, traps, and femboys, arguing that attraction to them doesn't count as gay. The term traces back to a 2006 Urban Dictionary entry and locked in as a board joke after a 2013 4chan post was crossposted to Reddit.
## Overview
Feminine Penis is an ironic joke phrase used on 4chan and adjacent internet communities when talking about the genitals of trans women, traps, and femboys[4]. The gag runs on a mock-serious logical trick: if the person is feminine enough, the poster claims, the penis itself qualifies as feminine, so attraction to it shouldn't count as gay by their own rules.
Urban Dictionary definitions treat the concept with absurd, exaggerated detail, describing the smell as a mix of "papaya and mango" and calling the appendage "very sensitive" and "delicate"[3]. The catchphrase most tied to the meme, "It's not gay if it's a feminine penis," turns up in image macros, greentext stories, and shitposts, often paired with the Big Man Tyrone character[3].
## How It Spread
The same day the 2013 4chan post went up, Redditor robosteven crossposted a screenshot of it to /r/4chan, where it pulled around 550 upvotes at an 89% ratio before archiving[1]. That crosspost carried the phrase outside its original board and set it up as a running joke tied to 4chan's trap threads.
On December 12, 2013, YouTuber Kat Blaque uploaded a video titled "He Loves Feminine Penis," discussing a man attracted to trans women and pulling the term into a wider social discussion beyond 4chan[4]. The framing there was earnest rather than ironic, which added a second, non-joke usage of the phrase in circulation.
By May 10, 2016, the phrase had aged into reference-material status: Redditor bigfist23 asked "What is a 'feminine penis'?" on /r/OutOfTheLoop, and Redditor PLeb5 explained it was "an old 4chan post about traps"[2]. The explainer thread signaled the joke was opaque to outsiders but understood as canon by 4chan regulars, and the Big Man Tyrone line "It's not gay, if it's a feminine penis" kept the phrase in shitpost circulation[3].
## How to Use
The joke typically appears as a mock-serious punchline in threads about attraction to trans women or femboys. Common conventions include image macros captioned "It's not gay if it's a feminine penis," greentext stories that end on the line, and reaction posts featuring the Big Man Tyrone character delivering the phrase[3]. Users often keep the exaggerated Urban Dictionary framing, riffing on the "papaya and mango" descriptors when playing up the bit[3].
## Frequently Asked Questions
### What is Feminine Penis?
An ironic 4chan joke phrase describing the genitals of trans women, traps, and femboys as "feminine," used to argue that attraction to them isn't gay[4].
### Where did Feminine Penis come from?
Urban Dictionary user sarahsparkles first defined the term on September 29, 2006[3], and a May 22, 2013 4chan post crossposted to /r/4chan turned it into a board joke[1].
### What does Feminine Penis mean?
It's a mock category invented to reframe attraction to trans women or femboys as heterosexual by focusing on the perceived femininity of the person rather than the anatomy[4].
### How do you use Feminine Penis?
Usually as a punchline in shitposts, greentexts, or image macros, most often the line "It's not gay if it's a feminine penis" paired with the Big Man Tyrone character[3].
### Is Feminine Penis still popular?
The phrase settled into 4chan reference-classic status after the 2016 /r/OutOfTheLoop explainer thread, circulating as an inside joke rather than a mainstream meme[2].
## References
1. [https://www.reddit.com/r/4chan/]()
2. [https://www.reddit.com/r/OutOfTheLoop/]()
3. [https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Feminine%20Penis]()
4. [https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/feminine-penis]()
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