# Girlboss And Malewife Girlboss and Malewife are paired Tumblr slang tags describing a role-reversed couple: an assertive, career-driven woman and a soft, domestic, gentle man. The combo went viral on Tumblr in late 2020 and early 2021 as fans applied it to cartoon parents and character ships. ## Origin The 'girlboss' half of the pair took off through Sophia Amoruso's 2014 memoir #Girlboss, about founding fashion brand Nasty Gal, which was a bestseller and pushed the hashtag into wide use[2]. Netflix adapted the book into a 2017 series also titled Girlboss, driving another search spike for the term[5]. 'Malewife' has older, scattered uses (including an 1868 Wisconsin newspaper story titled 'The Female Husband and Male Wife' and a January 9, 2005 Independent Ireland column by Victoria Mary Clarke titled 'A male wife is what modern women want'). The modern paired usage clicked into place on Tumblr in late November 2020, when user sainthamlet answered an anonymous ask 'what does malewife mean' with 'a man who is also wife <3,' tagging Howl from Howl's Moving Castle and Patroclus as example malewives[3]. On December 14, 2020, Urban Dictionary user starstrukn locked the pairing in by defining malewife as 'a man who acts as a wife and is inferior to his #girlboss girlfriend'[4]. - **Platform:** Tumblr (viral spread) / Twitter - **Creator:** Unknown (popularized by Tumblr user sainthamlet and others in late 2020) - **Date:** 2020 ## Overview Girlboss and Malewife are gender-flipped slang tags: girlboss for an assertive, ambitious woman with 'boss' energy, malewife for a soft, gentle, domestic man who carries traits stereotypically tied to a traditional wife[4]. Users on Tumblr and, later, Twitter mostly apply the pair together, either to real couples or, more often, to fictional ships and cartoon parents[6]. The tag usually shows up as a caption format like 'X and Y are girlboss and malewife,' attached to a screenshot or side-by-side of a couple. Urban Dictionary's top entry frames the pair as a mutual dynamic, defining malewife as a man who acts as a wife and is 'inferior to his #girlboss girlfriend'[4]. ## How It Spread The combo went viral through late December 2020 on Tumblr. On December 20, user raghsimp posted the Johnny Test parents (dad scrubbing the floor, mom at a desk) captioned 'the mom and dad from johnny test were LITERALLY girlboss and malewife,' hitting more than 23,000 notes; on December 26, user kujojotaro claimed 'the ORIGINAL girlboss/malewife couple is barbie and ken,' pulling over 30,000 notes[3]. On December 23, 2020, Tumblr user shartingan posted a Naruto-cast girlboss/malewife image edit with the caption 'hello naruto nation,' which broke 4,800 notes[1]. The pairing also spawned the spinoff catchphrase 'gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss,' which took off in mid-January 2021 after a Tumblr post by missnumber1111 reading 'today's agenda: gaslight gatekeep and most importantly girlboss' hit 43,500+ notes, followed by a photoshopped 'Live, Laugh, Love' wall art reworded as 'Gaslight every moment, Gatekeep every day, Girlboss beyond words'[3]. By early March 2021 the tag jumped to Twitter, with fans applying it to anime cooking scenes and to ships like My Hero Academia's IzuOcha. ## How to Use The common convention is to caption a couple, cartoon parents, or a character ship as 'girlboss and malewife,' assigning girlboss to the assertive, career-driven partner and malewife to the gentle, domestic one. Posts often use a side-by-side image or a screenshot with the caption 'X and Y are girlboss and malewife.' Variants swap in maleboss, girlwife, or wifeboss from the original bnva 'where do you lie on the girlboss-malewife spectrum' quiz format[3]. ## Frequently Asked Questions ### What is Girlboss And Malewife? A paired Tumblr slang tag for a role-reversed couple: an assertive, career-driven woman (girlboss) and a soft, gentle, domestic man (malewife)[4]. ### Where did Girlboss And Malewife come from? 'Girlboss' spread from Sophia Amoruso's 2014 memoir #Girlboss[2]; the paired girlboss/malewife combo took off on Tumblr in late November 2020 after a viral post by user sainthamlet[3]. ### What does Girlboss And Malewife mean? Girlboss means a dominant, ambitious woman with 'boss' traits; malewife means a passive, gentle man with traits stereotypically tied to a wife. Together they label a role-reversed couple dynamic[4]. ### How do you use Girlboss And Malewife? Caption a couple photo or character ship as 'X and Y are girlboss and malewife,' assigning the labels to the assertive woman and gentle man in the pair[3]. ### Is Girlboss And Malewife still popular? Peak usage was late 2020 through early 2021 on Tumblr, with the tag jumping to Twitter and spawning the spinoff 'gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss'[3]. It is still a classic Tumblr shorthand for role-reversed couples. ## References 1. [https://shartingan.tumblr.com/post/638259374555627520/hello-naruto-nation]() 2. [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%23Girlboss]() 3. [https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/girlboss-and-malewife]() 4. [https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=malewife]() 5. [https://www.netflix.com/title/80115676]() 6. [https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=girlboss]() --- Source: https://meme.com/memes/girlboss-and-malewife Published by meme.com — The Internet Meme Library