# Mens Group Chats Men's Group Chats is a Twitter-born meme format where users joke about the imagined content of all-male group text conversations. Originating in June 2017 with a comparison post by @sadposting, the format went viral in late August 2019 through a wave of parody tweets that racked up tens of thousands of engagements. The jokes generally fall into two camps: men either being absurdly wholesome, or casually enabling each other's worst behavior. ## Origin On June 16, 2017, Twitter user @sadposting posted a screenshot comparing "Women's group chats vs men's group chats". This is the earliest known instance of the meme format, establishing the basic premise of contrasting how different genders supposedly communicate in group messages. The post set up a template that other users would later run with, but the meme didn't immediately take off. It sat relatively dormant for over two years before a second wave of posts pushed it into wide circulation. - **Platform:** Twitter - **Creator:** @sadposting (original poster) - **Date:** 2017 ## Overview The Men's Group Chats meme follows a simple setup: someone describes a hypothetical conversation happening inside a group chat made up entirely of men. The punchline usually plays on gender stereotypes about male communication. In some versions, the men are shockingly supportive and wholesome. In others, they're collectively terrible, laughing off bad behavior or responding to everything with monosyllabic approval. A third common variant shows the chat as completely dead, with nobody responding to attempts at making plans. The format works as a text-only post, requiring no images or templates. Users write short dialogue exchanges labeled with generic identifiers like "Guy 1," "Guy 2," and "All the rest," then let the absurd contrast between the setup and the group's reaction carry the joke. ## How It Spread The meme's breakout moment came on August 30, 2019, when Twitter user @LoveSarae posted a parody version. Her tweet read: "Men's groupchats: Guy 1: 'Did you cheat on her?' Guy 2: 'Yeah bro' All the rest: 'ahahaha' 'sksksks' 'I'm deaddd.'" The post pulled in more than 7,400 likes and 1,600 retweets within six months[2]. Days later, @BokuNoBeefDip retweeted the post and added a riff about men sharing "anime ass" in the chat with everyone simply responding "nice"[1]. That version hit a nerve, earning over 68,000 likes and 14,000 retweets in the same timeframe. A third notable entry came from @renessh97, who posted a version showing "actual men's groupchats" as a message reading "Futsal Tonight:-" with zero replies, playing on the stereotype that men's chats are either dead silent or purely logistical. That tweet picked up roughly 4,400 retweets and 2,500 likes. The three posts together established the meme's main comedic lanes: men enabling bad behavior, men bonding over crude content, and men being too lazy to actually respond to anything. ## How to Use The format is flexible and text-based. To create your own version: 1. Start with "Men's group chats:" or a variation like "actual men's group chats" 2. Write a short dialogue exchange between generic participants ("Guy 1," "Guy 2," etc.) 3. The punchline typically comes from the group's collective response, which is either inappropriately supportive, hilariously indifferent, or completely absent 4. Common variations include the wholesome angle (men hyping each other up), the enabler angle (men co-signing bad decisions), or the dead chat angle (nobody responding) ## Fun Facts - The meme sat dormant for over two years between its 2017 origin and its 2019 viral moment, a gap that shows how meme formats can hibernate before the right remix sparks mass adoption. - @BokuNoBeefDip's "anime ass" version earned nearly ten times the engagement of the original viral tweet by @LoveSarae, despite being a direct reply to it[1]. - The "Futsal Tonight" variant became its own micro-meme, with users referencing it as shorthand for the idea that men's group chats are purely functional. - The format requires no image editing, Photoshop skills, or templates, making it one of the most accessible meme formats around. ## Frequently Asked Questions ### What is Men's Group Chats? Men's Group Chats is a meme format where users write fictional dialogue exchanges imagining what conversations in all-male group texts look like, usually playing on stereotypes about male communication. ### Where did Men's Group Chats come from? The format originated on June 16, 2017, when Twitter user @sadposting posted a comparison of women's and men's group chats. ### What does Men's Group Chats mean? The meme pokes fun at how men supposedly communicate in group settings, either being absurdly supportive of bad behavior, sharing low-effort content, or simply not responding at all. ### How do you use Men's Group Chats? Write a short dialogue labeled "Men's group chats:" with generic participants like "Guy 1" and "Guy 2," then make the group's collective reaction the punchline[2]. ### Is Men's Group Chats still popular? The format saw peak virality in late 2019 and still gets used in variations across Twitter and other platforms, though its posting frequency has dropped from its 2019 peak. ### Who made the original Men's Group Chats post? Twitter user @sadposting posted the first known version on June 16, 2017. ### Which Men's Group Chats tweet went most viral? @BokuNoBeefDip's version about sharing "anime ass" earned over 68,000 likes and 14,000 retweets, making it the most-engaged version of the format[1]. ### What is the "Futsal Tonight" version? A tweet by @renessh97 showing a men's group chat where someone messages "Futsal Tonight:-" and receives no replies, a joke about men's chats being functional but dead. ## References 1. [Bernie Sanders' Dank Meme Stash]() 2. [Men's Group Chats - Know Your Meme]() --- Source: https://meme.com/memes/mens-group-chats Published by meme.com — The Internet Meme Library