# Thats Rough Buddy > That's Rough, Buddy is a 2008 reaction meme from Avatar: The Last Airbender, born from Zuko's deadpan response when Sokka mentions his girlfriend literally turned into the moon. "That's Rough, Buddy" is a reaction meme and catchphrase from *Avatar: The Last Airbender* that took off after the episode "The Boiling Rock: Part 1" aired on July 16, 2008[3]. In the scene, Sokka confides to Zuko that his first girlfriend turned into the moon, and Zuko's deadpan reply of "That's rough, buddy" became one of the show's most quoted lines due to how absurdly understated it is as a response to such a wild problem[1]. The phrase saw a major revival in 2020 when Netflix added the show to its platform, turning it into a widely used reaction across Twitter and other social media[3]. ## Origin The line first aired on Nickelodeon on July 16, 2008, during the Season 3 episode "The Boiling Rock: Part 1"[3]. Fans immediately latched onto the exchange as one of the funniest moments in the series. The earliest YouTube upload of the scene came on July 17, 2009, when a user named noobradio posted the clip to their channel[3]. That video pulled in over 773,000 views and 29,000 upvotes over the following eleven years, making it the most-viewed standalone upload of the moment on the platform[3]. On October 12, 2009, DeviantArt user iCannons created one of the first meme versions of the scene, adding the caption: "That's Rough buddy: Because it's kinda hard to respond to 'My first girlfriend turned into the moon.'" In her post description, iCannons wrote that she "laughed for about forty five minutes straight" when she first watched it[1]. The post picked up over 6,000 views and 56 favorites on DeviantArt[1]. - **Platform:** Nickelodeon (TV broadcast), YouTube / DeviantArt (meme spread) - **Creator:** Michael Dante DiMartino & Bryan Konietzko (show creators), Dante Basco (voice of Zuko) - **Date:** 2008 ## Overview "That's Rough, Buddy" comes from a brief exchange between two main characters in *Avatar: The Last Airbender*. Sokka, the group's resident sarcastic warrior, opens up to Prince Zuko about his love life by dropping the bombshell that his first girlfriend literally transformed into the moon. Zuko, a character who has been through banishment, scarring, and family betrayal, can only muster: "That's rough, buddy." The comedy works on two levels. First, Sokka's problem is so cosmically absurd that there's really no appropriate response. Second, Zuko's flat delivery makes it clear he has no idea how to process what he just heard[3]. The line became shorthand online for expressing sympathy to someone dealing with a situation so bizarre or terrible that words fail you[2]. ## How It Spread The meme moved to Reddit in 2011. On July 9, Reddit user Infantrysgirl18 posted a remade version of iCannons' DeviantArt image using the same screenshot and text in a different font, earning 59 upvotes[3]. On May 28, 2012, user siegel_caww shared a Tumblr meme featuring Sokka's line with the post title "That's rough, buddy," and that one pulled over 1,100 upvotes[3]. Video remixes started appearing as creators spliced Zuko's line onto other scenes. On October 17, 2014, YouTuber lulu smith uploaded a video that cut between a different *Avatar* scene and Zuko's delivery of "That's rough, buddy." The video hit 1.4 million views by September 2020[3]. The biggest wave came in May 2020 when Netflix added *Avatar: The Last Airbender* to its streaming library[3]. A whole new generation of viewers discovered the show, and the phrase surged as a reaction image and caption format. By September 2020, Twitter users were applying "That's rough, buddy" to everything from relationship problems to current events, using screenshots of Zuko or just the text alone as a universal expression of deadpan sympathy[3]. ## How to Use The phrase works as a reaction to any situation that's either genuinely terrible or absurdly specific. Common approaches include: - **Text reply:** Drop "That's rough, buddy" in response to a friend's bad news, especially when the situation is so extreme you don't know what else to say. - **Image reaction:** Post a screenshot of Zuko's face from the scene, sometimes with the caption overlaid, in reply to a tweet or post describing a rough situation[2]. - **Remix format:** Set up a two-panel or text exchange where someone describes an increasingly absurd problem, followed by "That's rough, buddy" as the punchline[3]. The key to the format is the mismatch between the severity of the problem and the casual understatement of the response. It typically works best when the problem described is either wildly specific or genuinely devastating[2]. ## Cultural Impact "That's Rough, Buddy" became one of the most recognized quotes from *Avatar: The Last Airbender*, a show that already had an unusually meme-rich script. The phrase crossed over from fandom in-joke to general internet vocabulary, especially after the 2020 Netflix revival brought millions of new viewers to the series[3]. Urban Dictionary features multiple user-submitted definitions for the phrase, all referencing the original *Avatar* scene and describing it as a go-to response "to show compassion when your friend starts talking about how terrible his life is"[2]. The phrase's staying power comes from its versatility. Unlike memes tied to a specific visual template, "That's rough, buddy" works as pure text, making it easy to deploy in any conversation. ## Fun Facts - DeviantArt user iCannons noted in her original 2009 post that she expected most people finding her image were searching for Zuko/Sokka fan fiction, writing: "I'd bet dollars to dime bags that half the people who found this were looking for Zuko/Sokka yaoi"[1]. - The noobradio YouTube upload from 2009 is the oldest and most-viewed clip of the scene on the platform[3]. - The full quote that sets up the punchline, "My first girlfriend turned into the moon," is almost as memed as the response itself[2]. ## Frequently Asked Questions ### What is "That's Rough, Buddy"? It's a catchphrase and reaction meme from *Avatar: The Last Airbender* where Zuko responds to Sokka's revelation that his girlfriend turned into the moon with the deadpan line "That's rough, buddy"[3]. ### Where did "That's Rough, Buddy" come from? The line is from Season 3, Episode 14 of *Avatar: The Last Airbender*, titled "The Boiling Rock: Part 1," which aired on Nickelodeon on July 16, 2008[3]. ### What does "That's Rough, Buddy" mean? It's used to express sympathy or compassion toward someone dealing with a bad, bizarre, or overwhelming situation, often with a tone of understatement because there's really nothing adequate to say[2]. ### How do you use "That's Rough, Buddy"? Post it as a text reply or image reaction when someone shares a problem that's either extremely specific or so terrible that a casual "that's rough" is comically inadequate[2]. ### Is "That's Rough, Buddy" still popular? The meme saw a major resurgence in 2020 after Netflix added *Avatar: The Last Airbender* to its platform, and the phrase is still widely recognized and used as a reaction online[3]. ### Who voices Zuko in the original scene? Dante Basco voices Prince Zuko in *Avatar: The Last Airbender*, delivering the iconic deadpan line[3]. ### What is the full exchange in the scene? Sokka says "My first girlfriend turned into the moon," there's a pause, and Zuko replies "That's rough, buddy"[3]. ### When did "That's Rough, Buddy" first become a meme? The earliest known meme version appeared on DeviantArt on October 12, 2009, posted by user iCannons, roughly a year after the episode aired[1]. ### Why did the meme surge in 2020? Netflix added *Avatar: The Last Airbender* to its streaming library in May 2020, introducing the show to a new audience and sparking widespread meme creation on Twitter and other platforms[3]. ## References 1. [That's Rough, buddy. by iCannons on DeviantArt]() 2. [That's Rough, Buddy - Know Your Meme]() 3. [Among Us]() 4. [That's Rough, Buddy - Urban Dictionary]() --- Source: https://meme.com/memes/thats-rough-buddy Published by meme.com — The Internet Meme Library