15 Signs Youre A Sigma Male
15 Signs You're a "Sigma" Male is a series of Smooby post parodies based on a YouTube video by Alpha M. titled "15 Signs You're a 'SIGMA' Male (SUPER RARE) & Is it Better Than 'ALPHA?'" The format took off in May-June 2021 when Instagram users began replacing the video's thumbnail image with absurd characters like Cheems and Big Floppa, turning earnest sigma male self-help content into ironic shitposting fodder3.
Overview
The meme follows a simple format: a screenshot of Alpha M.'s original YouTube video thumbnail and title, but with the image of the "sigma male" swapped out for a random, usually absurd character. The joke works on two levels. First, it mocks the idea that being a "sigma male" is something you can diagnose from a checklist. Second, whatever character replaces the thumbnail (a dog, a cat, a fictional video game creature) is presented as the true sigma, which undercuts the whole concept3.
The format is part of the broader wave of sigma male irony that peaked in 2021, where the entire masculinity hierarchy (alpha, beta, sigma) got absorbed into meme culture and stripped of whatever sincerity it once had1.
On May 16, 2021, YouTuber Alpha M. uploaded "15 Signs You're a 'SIGMA' Male (SUPER RARE) & Is it Better Than 'ALPHA?'" The video laid out 15 supposed traits of sigma males, framing them as rare, independent men who "play by their own rules." It picked up over 264,000 views within two months3.
Three days later, on May 19, Instagram user cheemsitz posted a screenshot of the video's thumbnail, title, and view count with one key change: the man in the thumbnail was replaced with Cheems. The post pulled in over 15,900 likes in two months, establishing the parody template3.
Origin & Background
How It Spread
Media
How to Use This Meme
The format typically follows a few steps:
Take a screenshot (or recreation) of the Alpha M. video thumbnail showing the title "15 Signs You're a 'SIGMA' Male."
Replace the person in the thumbnail with any character, animal, or object. The more absurd or unlikely the replacement, the better.
Post it as-is. The comedy comes from the contrast between the self-important title and the ridiculous "sigma" in the image.
Cultural Impact
Fun Facts
The original Alpha M. video described sigma males as "SUPER RARE" in its title, which only made the parodies funnier since the format implies literally anything can be sigma.
The sigma male concept started as satire itself. The original hierarchy diagram was posted as a joke on Twitter around 2010 before people started taking it seriously.
By the time the "15 Signs" video dropped, Kindle Unlimited was already flooded with books like *The Sigma Male: What Women Want But Will Never Tell You* and e-courses promising "silent dominance".
The parody format is an example of a Smooby post, a genre of meme where screenshots of YouTube videos are edited to create absurd juxtapositions.
The gap between the original video and the first parody was only three days, suggesting the video was immediately recognized as meme material.
Derivatives & Variations
Cheems edit
— The original parody by cheemsitz, replacing the thumbnail sigma with the Cheems Shiba Inu[3].
Big Floppa edit
— gourmet.cat.memes swapped in Big Floppa, one of the first major variations[3].
Scrimblo Bimblo version
— @SKULLHORNETS' Twitter post using a Scrimblo Bimblo character, which drove the format's widest spread[3].
Frequently Asked Questions
References (3)
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- 215 Signs You're a "Sigma" Male - Know Your Memeencyclopedia
- 3Performative maleencyclopedia