First Time?
Also known as: James Franco First Time · First Time Meme
"First Time?" is a reaction image macro taken from the 2018 Coen Brothers film *The Ballad of Buster Scruggs*, featuring James Franco's character calmly asking a crying man on the gallows if this is his first execution. The screenshot went viral in November 2018 as a template for joking about situations that seem extreme to outsiders but feel routine to those who've been through them before1. It became one of the most versatile reaction memes of the late 2010s, used across Reddit, Twitter, and Imgur to flex hard-won experience in everything from video game difficulty to everyday absurdity.
Overview
The meme uses a single screenshot from the "Near Algodones" segment of *The Ballad of Buster Scruggs*. In the image, James Franco's character stands on the gallows with a noose around his neck, looking sideways at a weeping man next to him and asking "First time?" with a knowing, almost amused expression1. The humor comes from the character's total nonchalance about his own impending death, treating execution like just another Tuesday.
As a meme template, the image works in two ways. In its simplest form, a caption describes some terrible or ridiculous situation, and "First time?" is the punchline from someone who's already been through it. In object-labeling versions, Franco and the crying man are labeled as different groups, communities, or franchises to show one group's seasoned tolerance versus another's fresh horror3.
*The Ballad of Buster Scruggs* is a Western anthology film written, directed, and produced by Joel and Ethan Coen. It premiered at the 75th Venice International Film Festival on August 31, 2018, winning the Golden Osella Award for Best Screenplay1. Netflix released the film on November 16, 2018, after a limited theatrical run starting November 91.
The specific scene comes from the second segment, "Near Algodones." Franco plays a cowboy who robs a bank, gets captured twice by different posses through sheer bad luck, and ends up on the gallows with three other condemned men. He looks at the crying man to his left and quips "First time?" before being hooded and hanged1.
Netflix had uploaded the film's trailer to YouTube on September 12, 2018, which included the "First time?" clip. The trailer pulled in over 1.7 million views within three months3.
The meme format kicked off on November 25, 2018, when Twitter user @Ayub_dz posted a screenshot of Franco on the gallows with the caption: "When you're hiding from a school shooter and the foreign exchange student starts crying." The tweet picked up more than 37,000 retweets and 131,000 likes within five days3.
Origin & Background
How It Spread
How to Use This Meme
The "First Time?" meme typically follows one of two formats:
Caption format: Write a scenario describing something shocking, frustrating, or absurd above the Franco screenshot. The image itself delivers the punchline. The joke works best when the situation is genuinely alarming to most people but old news to a specific group. Example: a caption about a game crashing mid-save, with Franco's expression implying veteran players barely flinch anymore.
Object-labeling format: Label James Franco as the experienced group and the crying man as the newcomer encountering the problem for the first time. This version often compares fandoms, professions, or online communities. The gallows setting adds dark comedy, so it pairs well with topics that are bleak but familiar.
The key to a good "First Time?" meme is the contrast between panic and calm. Franco's expression does the heavy lifting. The caption just needs to set up a situation where someone's distress is met with casual indifference from someone who's seen it all before.
Cultural Impact
Fun Facts
James Franco's character in the film has no name. He's credited simply as "the cowboy" in the "Near Algodones" segment.
The film is structured as six separate short stories with no connecting plot. The meme comes from the second of six segments.
The character who says "First time?" is himself being executed for crimes he didn't commit. He was mistaken for a cattle rustler after the actual rustler escaped.
The trailer containing the "First time?" clip sat on YouTube for over two months before anyone turned it into a meme.
*The Ballad of Buster Scruggs* was originally conceived as a six-part TV series before the Coens reworked it into a feature film.
Derivatives & Variations
Variations with different knowing expressions or characters
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(2018)Extended sequences showing escalating familiarity with difficulty
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(2018)Paired reactions showing before and after experiencing something difficult
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(2018)Versions emphasizing the dark humor of normalized suffering
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(2018)Frequently Asked Questions
References (4)
- 1Memeencyclopedia
- 2First Time? - Urban Dictionarydictionary
- 3First Time? - Know Your Memeencyclopedia
- 4The Ballad of Buster Scruggsencyclopedia