Reality Can Be Whatever I Want
Also known as: Thanos Control · Reality Bending · Reality Can Be Whatever I Want · REALITY CAN BE WHATEVER I WANT · Reality Can Be Whatever I Want Meme · RCBWIW
"Reality Can Be Whatever I Want" is a meme based on a quote from Thanos in the 2018 Marvel film *Avengers: Infinity War*. The still image of Thanos paired with the line took off on Reddit in December 2018 and became a popular image macro for pointing out double standards, wishful thinking, and situations where someone bends the rules to suit themselves.
Overview
The meme uses a screenshot of Thanos, played by Josh Brolin, from *Avengers: Infinity War* with the caption "Reality can be whatever I want." In the film, the line refers to Thanos wielding the Reality Stone, one of six Infinity Stones that grant him power over the fabric of existence1. As a meme, the image gets paired with setups describing situations where someone ignores logic, applies selective standards, or twists facts to fit their narrative. The format works because Thanos delivers the line with casual authority, making it a perfect reaction to anyone acting like the rules don't apply to them.
*Avengers: Infinity War* premiered in the United States on April 27, 20181. The film follows Thanos as he collects the six Infinity Stones to wipe out half of all life in the universe2. In one scene, Thanos demonstrates his ability to alter reality itself using the Reality Stone, delivering the line that would become the meme3.
The film was directed by Anthony and Joe Russo, written by Christopher Markus and Stephen McFeely, and featured Josh Brolin as Thanos1. It broke box office records, grossing over $2 billion worldwide and becoming the highest-grossing film of 20182.
Origin & Background
How It Spread
How to Use This Meme
The standard format pairs the Thanos screenshot with a setup that describes someone selectively applying logic or ignoring inconvenient truths. Common approaches include:
- Top text: Describe a situation where rules, standards, or facts are being ignored or bent - Bottom panel: The Thanos "Reality can be whatever I want" image as the punchline
People typically use it for pointing out hypocrisy, double standards, or wishful thinking. It also works as a reaction image posted in reply to someone making a claim that conveniently ignores reality. The tone is usually humorous rather than hostile.
Cultural Impact
Fun Facts
The film *Avengers: Infinity War* was one of the most expensive films ever made, with an estimated budget of $325-400 million.
The movie was shot back-to-back with its sequel *Avengers: Endgame* over a production period from January to July 2017.
Josh Brolin's performance as Thanos received specific critical praise, which likely helped make the character so meme-friendly.
The meme's first known post appeared roughly seven months after the film's theatrical release, showing a typical delay between movie premiere and meme adoption.
Derivatives & Variations
Reality Can Be Whatever I Want Variations
Different takes on the Reality Can Be Whatever I Want format with modified content
(2019)Reality Can Be Whatever I Want Mashups
Combinations of Reality Can Be Whatever I Want with other popular memes
(2020)Reality Can Be Whatever I Want Remixes
Updated versions with current events and references
(2020)Frequently Asked Questions
References (4)
- 1Karen (slang)encyclopedia
- 2Avengers: Infinity Warencyclopedia
- 3Reality Can Be Whatever I Want - Know Your Memeencyclopedia
- 4Avengers: Infinity War - Wikipediaencyclopedia