Brienne And Tormund
Also known as: Briemund · Torienne
Brienne and Tormund is a shipping meme from HBO's *Game of Thrones* based on the wildling warrior Tormund Giantsbane's hilariously intense, unrequited attraction to Brienne of Tarth. The pairing first went viral on May 15, 2016, after a scene in Season 6's "Book of the Stranger" showed Tormund staring at Brienne with unabashed desire1. It became one of the most beloved running jokes in the GoT fandom, spawning countless reaction GIFs, fan edits, and memes across four seasons5.
Overview
The Brienne and Tormund meme centers on the absurd, puppy-love staring that Tormund Giantsbane directs at Brienne of Tarth throughout *Game of Thrones*. In a show defined by political scheming, brutal warfare, and tragic deaths, Tormund's wide-eyed romantic fixation on the stoic, towering knight offered a rare bright spot of comedy that fans latched onto immediately4.
The meme typically takes the form of GIFs showing Tormund's exaggerated, awestruck expressions as he watches Brienne, or image macros and fan edits pairing the two characters in romantic or comedic contexts7. The humor comes from the contrast: Tormund is a rough, boastful wildling who once claimed he was nursed by a giantess, while Brienne is a noble, duty-bound warrior with zero interest in his advances6. Much of the meme content plays on this one-sided dynamic, with Tormund shooting his shot in increasingly absurd ways while Brienne looks uncomfortable or disgusted.
The pairing also fed into a wider fan debate about a love triangle between Tormund, Brienne, and Jaime Lannister, which gave the shipping meme an extra layer of dramatic tension and community engagement4.
On May 15, 2016, the fourth episode of *Game of Thrones* Season 6, titled "Book of the Stranger," premiered on HBO8. In the episode, Brienne arrives at Castle Black with Sansa Stark and Podrick. Tormund Giantsbane catches sight of her and is visibly struck by instant attraction, gawking at her during a courtyard scene and again during a meal5.
Director Daniel Sackheim later admitted he wasn't even sure the romantic subtext would land with audiences. "It was like a fun little bit, but I wasn't sure it was really clear that he had these amorous feelings for Brienne," Sackheim told Vogue. "I'm always amazed what fans pick up"2.
They picked up on it fast. Within hours of the episode airing, Twitter user @VictoriaAveyard posted a GIF of Tormund's stare set to a "Baby Got Back" quote by Sir Mix-a-Lot5. The tweet pulled in over 3,800 retweets and 6,500 likes in its first three years. Three days later, on May 18, 2016, YouTube user imperiallimpala uploaded a fan edit setting the Tormund-Brienne scenes to Celine Dion's "My Heart Will Go On," which racked up over 235,000 views5.
Origin & Background
How It Spread
How to Use This Meme
The Brienne and Tormund format is flexible but usually follows one of a few patterns:
- Reaction GIF: Use a GIF of Tormund staring at Brienne to express intense, awkward, or unrequited attraction. Works for "when your crush walks in" scenarios or any moment of someone being way too obvious about their feelings. - Image macro / captioned screenshot: Take a still of Tormund's face during a meal scene and add text about a one-sided crush, a bold romantic move, or oblivious confidence. - Love triangle format: Create content playing Tormund and Jaime Lannister against each other as competing suitors for Brienne. This works for any "two people competing for the same thing" setup. - Quote format: Pair Tormund's actual dialogue (especially the giant's milk story) with reaction images of Brienne or the other characters looking disturbed.
The core joke is always the same: one person is wildly, shamelessly into someone who wants absolutely nothing to do with them.
Cultural Impact
Fun Facts
Director Daniel Sackheim wasn't confident viewers would even notice Tormund's attraction to Brienne, calling it "a fun little bit" that he wasn't sure read clearly on screen.
Fans coined two competing ship names: Torienne and Briemund. Both got real usage but neither fully won out.
In The Ringer's 2019 GoT meme bracket, the Brienne-Tormund pairing beat the Night King's Hardhome stare by only 44 votes in the semifinals.
Actor Kristofer Hivju's physical performance as Tormund, particularly his exaggerated facial expressions during meal scenes, drove most of the meme content without any dialogue needed.
The meme peaked twice: first in May 2016 with the original scene, and again in April 2019 when Season 8 gave Tormund extended screen time with Brienne.
Derivatives & Variations
"My Heart Will Go On" edit:
A fan video pairing Tormund's staring scenes with Celine Dion's *Titanic* theme, posted May 18, 2016, by YouTube user imperiallimpala. It got over 235,000 views[5].
Giant's milk memes:
A sub-category of Tormund memes spawned by his Season 8 story about being breastfed by a giantess. These stood on their own as absurdist comedy[6].
Tormund vs. Jaime shipping war memes:
Content pitting the two male characters against each other for Brienne's affection, often using the "distracted boyfriend" format or side-by-side comparisons[5].
"Baby Got Back" GIF tweet:
@VictoriaAveyard's original tweet pairing Tormund's stare with Sir Mix-a-Lot lyrics became a template others riffed on[5].
Frequently Asked Questions
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