Human Kindness Moment
Also known as: Waymond Kindness Speech · "Be Kind" EEAO Meme · Waymond's Plea
"Human Kindness Moment" is a reaction meme and quote format taken from the 2022 film *Everything Everywhere All at Once*, specifically the scene where Waymond Wang (played by Ke Huy Quan) delivers an emotional plea for kindness in the face of existential chaos. The scene, in which Waymond asks everyone to stop fighting and "be kind, especially when we don't know what's going on," spread across Twitter, Tumblr, and TikTok as screencaps, quote graphics, and video clips starting in spring 2022. It became a go-to reaction for countering cynicism and nihilism online.
Overview
The Human Kindness Moment meme draws from one of the emotional peaks of *Everything Everywhere All at Once*. In the scene, Waymond Wang stands in front of IRS agents, multiverse fighters, and his own estranged family, and delivers a quiet monologue about choosing kindness when nothing makes sense. The speech hits because it arrives after nearly two hours of absurdist chaos, interdimensional combat, and existential dread. Waymond, who has been portrayed as passive and overlooked for most of the film, suddenly becomes its moral center.
Online, the meme takes several forms: screencaps of Ke Huy Quan mid-speech with the quote overlaid, video clips of the full monologue, and text-only quote posts. The core use is as a sincere reaction, not ironic. People share it when they want to push back against doomer nihilism, respond to bad news with empathy, or just remind their followers that kindness still matters.
The scene originates from *Everything Everywhere All at Once*, written and directed by Daniel Kwan and Daniel Scheinert (collectively known as "the Daniels"). The film premiered at South by Southwest on March 11, 2022, then entered limited U.S. theatrical release on March 25 before A24 gave it a wide release on April 81. Production ran from January to March 20201.
In the film's climax, Evelyn Wang (Michelle Yeoh) is on the verge of surrendering to nihilism after experiencing every universe at once. Jobu Tupaki (Stephanie Hsu) has shown her that nothing matters. Just as Evelyn is about to enter the Everything Bagel and accept oblivion, she pauses to listen to Waymond's plea for everyone to stop fighting and practice kindness, "even when life is senseless"1. This moment triggers Evelyn's turn toward empathy, and she uses her multiverse powers to bring happiness to those around her instead of destruction1.
Ke Huy Quan's performance in this scene, raw and restrained at the same time, made the moment land hard with audiences. The speech began circulating on social media almost immediately after the film's wider release in April 2022.
Origin & Background
How It Spread
Platforms
Timeline
2023-01-15
First appears
2023-06-01
Goes viral
2024-01-01
Continues in use
2025-01-01
Human Kindness Moment is still actively used and shared across platforms
How to Use This Meme
The Human Kindness Moment meme typically works in a few ways:
Direct quote share — Post a screencap of Waymond mid-speech with the quote overlaid. Used sincerely as a reminder to be kind, often in response to bad news cycles or online fights.
Reply format — When someone posts a nihilistic take ("nothing matters," "why bother"), reply with the Waymond screencap or a paraphrased version of the speech. The implied message: kindness still matters even if you're right that everything is chaotic.
Video clip — Share the actual scene from the film, sometimes edited with music or paired with other emotional movie moments. Common on TikTok and Twitter.
Quote graphic — Text-only posts of the speech, sometimes attributed, sometimes not. These circulate on Instagram stories and Tumblr.
Cultural Impact
Fun Facts
The film's soundtrack features collaborations with Mitski, David Byrne, André 3000, and Randy Newman, among others.
Kwan and Scheinert began developing the project in 2010, a full twelve years before its release.
The film was inspired partly by the video game *Everything* and the children's book *Sylvester and the Magic Pebble*.
Ke Huy Quan's role as Waymond was his first major film part in decades. He'd been largely absent from Hollywood since childhood roles in *Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom* and *The Goonies*.
The "Everything Bagel" that Jobu creates in the film forms a toroid singularity, a black hole shaped like a bagel.
Derivatives & Variations
Nihilism vs. Kindness edits
— Split-screen or two-panel memes placing Jobu Tupaki's "nothing matters" alongside Waymond's kindness speech, framing the film's central tension as a meme format[1].
Awards night mashups
— Edits combining Ke Huy Quan's Oscar acceptance speech with the in-film Waymond speech, blurring the line between actor and character[1].
"Be kind" reaction macro
— A simplified version using just the Waymond screencap with "be kind" text, deployed as a quick reply image in the same vein as other reaction memes.
Googly eyes kindness edits
— References to the film's recurring googly eye motif, paired with the kindness message[1].
Frequently Asked Questions
References (1)
- 1Everything Everywhere All at Onceencyclopedia