The Girls Are Fighting
"The Girls Are Fighting" is a catchphrase originating from rapper Azealia Banks' September 2018 Instagram Live reaction to the Nicki Minaj and Cardi B altercation at New York Fashion Week. The phrase became a popular way to joke about public feuds between notable figures, experiencing a viral resurgence in June 2025 when Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez used it to comment on the Trump-Musk fallout.
Overview
"The Girls Are Fighting" is a catchphrase used to humorously commentate on public disputes between notable figures. The phrase comes from a September 2018 Instagram Live video where rapper Azealia Banks, wearing a bunny face filter, dramatically reacted to news of Nicki Minaj and Cardi B fighting at New York Fashion Week1. In the clip, Banks exclaims, "Whaaat? What is the tea, the girls are fighting! Nooo… the girls are fighting, why?!" with exaggerated surprise and glee.
The catchphrase works as a way to frame any public conflict between two parties as entertaining gossip. While originally referencing an actual fight between two women, the phrase evolved to apply to any high-profile feud, regardless of gender2. Users deploy it when celebrities clash on social media, when politicians attack each other publicly, or when any two prominent figures have a falling out. The humor lies in treating serious disputes as trivial drama.
The phrase experienced a major resurgence in June 2025 when U.S. Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez quoted it in response to the public feud between Donald Trump and Elon Musk3. Her usage introduced the meme to a wider political audience and sparked discussion about whether the phrase was problematic or simply harmless comedy.
How It Spread
How to Use This Meme
The catchphrase is typically used as a reaction or commentary when two notable figures are publicly feuding. Users can quote the phrase directly, reference the original Azealia Banks video, or create variations that add additional theatrical commentary. Common contexts include celebrity disputes, politician disagreements, or brand rivalries on social media. The phrase works when applied ironically to conflicts between men, treating serious disagreements as petty gossip.