Mansplaining
Also known as: mansplain · mansplainer
Mansplaining is a blend of "man" and "explaining," describing when a man condescendingly explains something to a woman who already knows more about the topic than he does. The term was coined on LiveJournal in May 2008, weeks after author Rebecca Solnit published her now-famous essay "Men Explain Things to Me." It quickly jumped from feminist blogs to mainstream vocabulary, landing in major dictionaries by 2014 and spawning an entire family of "-splaining" derivatives that are still in heavy rotation across social media.
Overview
Mansplaining refers to a specific flavor of condescension: a man explaining something to a woman in an overconfident, often inaccurate way, without considering that she might already be an expert on the subject3. The key ingredient isn't just explaining things while male. It's the underlying assumption that the man is automatically more knowledgeable, regardless of the woman's actual qualifications5. A male doctor explaining a diagnosis to a female patient isn't mansplaining. A random guy at a party explaining a woman's own book to her, on the other hand, is the textbook example1.
The term is a portmanteau, combining "man" with the informal verb "splaining"4. While "splain" has existed in English for over 200 years as a colloquial pronunciation of "explain," its modern usage increasingly carries connotations of condescending or verbose explanations5. Over time, the word broadened beyond strictly gendered situations. Some people use it whenever anyone explains something with misplaced confidence to someone who clearly knows better4.
The concept crystallized on April 13, 2008, when Rebecca Solnit published "Men Explain Things to Me" on TomDispatch.com, later reprinted in the Los Angeles Times1. Solnit recounted an experience at a party in Aspen where a wealthy man asked about her books, then cut her off to tell her about "the very important Muybridge book that came out this year." He kept going even as Solnit's friend Sallie repeatedly tried to interject, "That's her book." Sallie had to say it three or four times before the man registered what was happening1. Solnit never used the word "mansplaining" in the essay, but she named the dynamic clearly: "Men explain things to me, and to other women, whether or not they know what they're talking about. Some men. Every woman knows what I mean"7.
About five weeks later, the word itself appeared online. On May 21, 2008, a user named "phosfate" on the Fandom_Wank LiveJournal community responded to a male fan who was holding forth about misogyny in the TV series Supernatural, despite not having watched the episodes in question. Phosfate's reply: "Oh, gosh, thank you so much for mansplaining this to us!"2. Whether phosfate had read Solnit's essay or whether the coinage was independent is unknown2.
By August 2008, the word was popping up in other LiveJournal conversations. In one exchange, a user named "electricwitch" fired back at someone who was interpreting a piece of performance art she hadn't asked for commentary on: "Wow, thank you so much for mansplaining this art to me! What with my arts degrees, I can't understand it at all!"2. The reply perfectly captured the dynamic that would make the word stick: assumed expertise meeting actual expertise.
Origin & Background
How It Spread
How to Use This Meme
Mansplaining is typically called out rather than performed on purpose. The term is used in three main ways online:
As a label in the moment: When someone is explaining something to a person who clearly knows more about it, observers (or the person being talked at) might say "Thanks for mansplaining that" or "Stop mansplaining." The sarcastic "thank you for mansplaining" format traces directly back to the word's first recorded uses on LiveJournal.
As social commentary: People share anecdotes of being mansplained to, often with the hashtag #mansplaining on Twitter. Common formats include screenshots of men explaining women's own fields to them, or stories of men correcting women on topics like childbirth, their own names, or their own published work.
As a reaction or meme caption: The mansplaining statue photo, "Don't confuse your Google search with my master's degree" memes, and similar images often get captioned with variations on the concept.
The term works best when there's a clear gap between the explainer's assumed authority and the listener's actual expertise. A man explaining period cramps to a gynecologist fits. A man explaining how an engine works to someone who just asked how an engine works doesn't.
Cultural Impact
Full History
Fun Facts
Rebecca Solnit's party anecdote involved a man who hadn't actually read the "very important Muybridge book" he was lecturing her about. He'd only read about it in the New York Times Book Review.
The man at the party had to be told "That's her book" three or four times by Solnit's friend Sallie before it registered. Then, "as if in a nineteenth-century novel, he went ashen".
One blogger wrote a self-reflective post in 2009 about mansplaining feminism to a young woman at a quiz bowl competition. Her response to his recommendation of "The Beauty Myth" was: "I don't read that dykey stuff".
The German translation "herrklären" is a blend of "Herr" (Mr./gentleman) and "erklären" (to explain), mirroring the English portmanteau structure.
The verb "splain" predates the internet by over 200 years, originally as a colloquial pronunciation of "explain" in Late Middle English.
Derivatives & Variations
-splaining suffix:
Dictionary.com added "-splain" as a standalone combining form in 2013, recognizing it as a productive word-building element. It's been attached to dozens of identities and positions[5].
Whitesplaining:
When a white person condescendingly explains race-related issues to people of color. Senator Rand Paul's speech at Howard University drew this label[8].
Femsplaining:
A counter-term describing when a woman assumes she knows more about a man's experiences or perspective than he does. Carries a more contested, reactive connotation than mansplaining[8].
Ablesplaining:
When a non-disabled person patronizingly explains disability to disabled people. Covers everything from unsolicited advice about wheelchair use to dismissing invisible disabilities[8].
Rightsplaining:
Political variant applied when right-leaning commentators explain left-wing concerns back to left-leaning people[5].
Goysplaining:
When a non-Jewish person explains Jewish issues to Jewish people[5].
The Mansplaining Statue:
Paul Tadlock's 2006 sculpture "Classmates" at the University of the Incarnate Word, which went viral in 2015 as an accidental monument to mansplaining[2].
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